The Key To Making Squirting Easy
Everyone thinks that to make her squirt, you need to perfect your fingering technique. They think that if she’s not squirting, it’s because they are not rubbing, not massaging or not pressing the correct way.
Often, this is not the reason she isn’t squirting.
The most common reason that women can’t squirt is that you have not properly released the Brakes that are holding back her sex drive and/or you have not intensified the Accelerators to her sex drive that will make her crazy horny, aroused and ready to squirt.
Remove The Brakes
There are certain things that inhibit a woman’s ability to let go and get turned on. These include things like:
- Stress.
- Anxiety.
- Depression.
- Exhaustion.
- Certain medications.
- Bad past experiences.
- Fears about pregnancy and STIs.
- Etc.
If your girl is experiencing any of these issues, then she is going to obviously find it difficult to fully relax, let go and squirt.
Once you have removed these Brakes, then the only other issue that may prevent her from squirting is that you may not have used any Accelerators to her sex drive to make her aroused and horny.
Intensify The Accelerators
These are the things that make your girl horny and desperate for sex. They include things like:
- Her feeling desired and wanted.
- Being with a guy she finds attractive.
- Experiencing intense sexual tension.
- The right type of physical foreplay.
- etc.
Once you can reliably turn her on and have removed the Brakes, while increasing the Accelerators, making her squirt comes down to using the right technique, which is surprisingly simple…
A Little Preparation
This goes without saying, but the last thing you want to do is put a sharp object that might nick or cut her vagina. So make sure to trim AND file your fingernails.
Trimming them is NOT enough. You must make sure they are filed down too so there aren’t any sharp edges that might hurt her.
Similarly, make sure the skin on your hands isn’t rough and jagged. You can also exfoliate and use lotion, so your hands will be baby smooth.
Squirting Technique
You’ll start by inserting your middle finger into her vagina, making sure it’s wet and lubed so it goes in smoothly. Ideally, she should be wet enough that you can coat your finger with her natural wetness before penetrating her. If not, try licking your finger. The last option is to use lube.
As you insert your finger, you need to be brushing the pad of your finger (that’s the area with your fingerprint) against the top of the vaginal wall, like in the illustration above. Gently stroke the area with your middle finger and see how she responds.
After doing this for up to a minute, slowly pull out your middle finger. You’re now going to insert both your middle and ring fingers together.
To make sure they both slide in pleasurably, you’ll need to coat your ring finger with her natural wetness as well…or use salvia or lube.
As you slide your index and middle fingers inside her, it should look like the illustration above, with your fingers curled slightly around her pubic bone, so they are providing pressure to her G Spot area.
If this is your first time trying to make your girl squirt, it’s a good idea to do a little exploring with your fingertips. Extend them to reach a little deeper and then curl them back up to bring them to a shallower point in her vagina. When doing this make sure to run your fingertips along the top wall of her vaginal canal.
As you do so, you’ll be able to feel different textures and surfaces, helping you to find exactly where her G Spot is…Remember, it feels similar to a wet raspberry.
Now it’s time to stimulate her G Spot and make her squirt! Here is a bunch of different techniques, try them all and then focus your efforts on the ones that work best for you and your girl.
Push The Button
Like the name, you’ll perform the Push the Button techniques by repeatedly pressing her G Spot with your finger like you would press a button, up and down. Experiment and vary how much pressure you apply and the speed at which you do it. Lightly pressing can be enough for some women, while others need intense pressure.
This pressing can be pleasurable, but not be enough to push her over the edge and squirt.
Rubbing Her G Spot
Rubbing her G Spot in a circular motion while maintaining lots of pressure on your fingertip is another option. Again, for some women, this is enough to make them squirt, but for others, it merely feels nice and is not enough to make them explode.
Thankfully, the next technique will make squirting much easier.
Come Hither Motion
Making a ‘come hither’ or ‘beckoning’ motion with your middle and ring fingers will allow the tips of your fingers to run over and back on her G Spot, providing her with a lot more stimulation. Again, make sure to experiment with the amount of pressure you apply and with the exact location of where you apply the pressure.
As you curl your fingers, you should be applying lots of pressure to her G Spot. Then release this pressure as you’re straightening them out. As you start curling them again, start to apply more pressure.
For many women, this is more than enough to make them squirt. However, there are two issues that sometimes arise from each of these three techniques:
- You may notice that your fingers and wrist get tired way too fast before she is even close to squirting.
- They may not provide enough stimulation to your girl.
That’s why I’ve reserved the Arm Shaker for last. It’s practically a fail-safe way to make any woman squirt.
The Arm Shaker
The Arm Shaker shares much in common with the above three techniques, with a few important differences. Instead of using your fingers and hand to provide stimulation, you are going to use your entire arm. First, you need to keep your fingers firmly in place, with the tips pressed against her G Spot. Then you need to start using your entire arm to provide pressure to her G Spot, a lot more pressure than previously.
Do this by keeping your arm quite stiff while trying to raise and lower it rapidly. As your fingers are pressed against her G Spot, you will be able to provide massive amounts of pressure to it. This is almost guaranteed to make her squirt.
Extra Pressure
If for some reason, she is still having trouble with female ejaculation despite using all the techniques I’ve just taught you. Then you can have her apply downward pressure to her Mons Pubis, like in the illustration above…or you can use your spare hand to do it yourself.
Applying pressure like this has the effect of gently squeezing her G Spot further into her vagina, allowing you to provide more pressure.
My one concern in this position is making sure that you don’t apply too much pressure or press down too hard. Otherwise, you will be putting a lot of pressure on her bladder, which will make her feel like peeing, taking her out of the moment.
You can also use this technique during sex if she requires more pressure on her G Spot.
Clit & G spot
Now it’s time to combine forces to double her pleasure. With one hand, you will be using some of the techniques We described above for rubbing her clit while using your other hand to penetrate her and massage her G Spot. You’ll be stimulating her clitoris from the inside and outside.
The only hard part when doing this technique is comfortably using both your hands…
What position makes it easy to use both of your hands to finger your girl?
- Standing behind her is probably the best position as you can easily reach around her and kiss her neck while doing it.
- Her on all fours with you behind her on your knees, reaching around her. You may have to lean over her in this position, meaning that you can kiss her back as you do.
- You lying down on your back with her lying on top of you, also on her back.
If one of your hands is pressing on her mons, have her rub her clitoris while you stroke her G-spot. When she plays with her own clit, you can experiment with a wider variety of positions, some of which may be more comfortable for you or allows you to stimulate her G-spot for longer.
