Turning your man on with dirty talk is surprisingly easy and a lot of fun. The 64 dirty talk examples below are going to do just that, get him completely aroused and make for some really intense sex.
So you now know WHY you should talk dirty and how it’s going to benefit your relationship. Before giving you the 64 examples of dirty talk in next article, we first want to teach how to talk dirty so that you do it confidently, AND it makes your man crazy for you.
To talk dirty in a way that’s both confident and effective, there are four factors that you need to consider…
- The Context
- The Tone Of Your Voice
- The Speed Of Your Voice
- What You Do While Talking Dirty To Your Man
The Context When Talking Dirty
Without a doubt, the context is the most important factor to consider when learning how to talk dirty. What I mean by context is WHERE YOU DO IT and WHAT THE MOOD IS.
Imagine the following situation as an example: You are both lying in bed together, cuddling, looking into each others eyes…Your man then tells you, “I love you” for the first time. Now is absolutely the worst time to talk dirty to him. Imagine how disappointed he would be if your response was, “I can’t stop thinking about your cock.”
The context in the example above is a serious and vulnerable and special moment for both of you. Talking dirty is going to ruin the moment. We hope this is obvious.
Here’s a much better example: It’s a Saturday evening, and you’re both at home, fooling around on the sofa. While playing around, you look at your man with a cheeky grin and say, “If you don’t stop messing around, I’m going to grab my whip and teach you a lesson.”
Here’s another great example: You and your husband are both on vacation and have had a few drinks. You get back to your hotel or apartment, and you are both feeling super horny and totally uninhibited. Now is the perfect time to push him onto the bed and have your way with him. Telling him to, “keeping fucking me like that” or “I want to feel you orgasm inside me” or “you’re going to make me cum so hard.” Use these clitoral stimulation techniques to have powerful orgasms during sex.
The point we are trying to make with these examples is that YOU NEED TO TAILOR YOUR DIRTY TALK TO THE CONTEXT OR SITUATION for it to have maximum effect.
The Tone Of Your Voice
Next is getting your voice tone right. Many students are surprised that a large percentage of communication is non-verbal. In other words, only a small percentage of the power of talking dirty is the actual line itself. The rest is your voice tone and a few other factors that We’ll explain in a minute
Getting your voice tone right will dramatically increase the power of your dirty talk to the point where you are literally hypnotizing your man with your voice.
Imagine using the following naughty dirty talk example on your man in a high pitched, excited-like-a-school-girl-at-a-pop-concert voice that, “I can’t wait to get you home.” Not only will your man be turned off, but he may also be a bit weirded out.
Now imagine telling him the same thing, “I can’t wait to get you home.” In a sultry, breathy voice that you whisper in his ear. Don’t be surprised if he demands to get you alone immediately!
The same applies when you’re in bed together and talking dirty. You could scream, “Fuck me harder” at him like your life depended on it. This is definitely going to turn him on AND make him pound you harder. But what if you said it with a flat, disinterested tone like you had mentally checked out of the situation? It would be a total turn off.
Our point here is that some women think that all they need is the line, but smart women like you now know that your voice tone plays a vital role when talking dirty.
The Speed Of Your Voice
The speed of your voice also plays an important role when it comes to the non-verbal aspect of talking dirty.
So in bed, you’re naturally going to be talking quite fast if you are really enjoying yourself and are having some sweaty, steamy sex.
But if you’re having slow, passionate, loving sex, then it’s more natural to talk more slowly and lovingly. You’ll find some great dirty talk examples for slow, passionate sex here.
If you are both out in public together, and you need to be discreet, the slower you whisper into your man’s ear, the better. Drawing it out over 10 seconds will blow your man away…here’s an example,
“I’m…so…dam…horny right now…I…wish…I…had…you…inside…me.”
There are two rules you should follow for your voice speed when talking dirty.
- Only talk fast when you’re having really sweaty, filthy, nasty sex. The rest of the time speak very slowly.
- When we say slowly, we mean really slowly.
What Are You Doing When You’re Talking Dirty
Most women get this wrong. When you use any dirty talk example, whether it’s tame or super-freaky, your body needs to be in “alignment” with the words you’re saying to him.
If you are sitting beside him on a plane and randomly whisper in his ear, “I’m so bummed that we’re on a plane, I really want to feel your lips on my pussy right now,” WITHOUT even touching him, it’s NOT going to be particularly effective.
Now imagine saying the same thing, “I’m so bummed that we’re on a plane, I really want to feel your lips on my pussy right now,” while slowly running your fingers up his inside leg. Then after saying it, you slowly pull back and make eye contact with him while smirking at him. It’s going to drive him haywire.
The point we are trying to make here is that it’s not just the lines that will make you the queen of talking dirty. If you want to truly master talking dirty with your man, you also need to:
- Understand the context.
- Get your voice tone right.
- In most cases, slow the speed of your voice right down.
- Make sure to pay attention to what you’re doing while talking dirty.