Knowing how to please your man properly in the bedroom is absolutely vital if you want to make sure that your relationship with him stays strong…but don’t worry, this guide is going to show you exactly how to do that with 15 insanely powerful techniques…

1. Initiate Sex

What’s one way to please your partner sexually? Simple: initiate sex. Since men usually initiate sex (almost twice as often as women when dating), they’re the ones who are rejected when women aren’t in the mood. Even if you say “Yes,” to sex more often than not, always having to initiate sex can get old for your man.

So initiate yourself.

  • Ask him if he wants to have sex.
  • Strip down and walk into the room naked.
  • Let him walk in on you masturbating.
  • Tell him that you’re going to have sex as soon as you both get home together, or send him off in the morning with a kiss and a promise for later naughty times.

So initiate yourself.

  • Ask him if he wants to have sex.
  • Strip down and walk into the room naked.
  • Let him walk in on you masturbating.
  • Tell him that you’re going to have sex as soon as you both get home together, or send him off in the morning with a kiss and a promise for later naughty times.

If you take the initiative, it’ll take a lot of pressure off of your man. It can make him feel more desired. Trust me; it will definitely please him.

You might wind up having more sex too, which most guys will absolutely love. Men associate more frequent sex with greater satisfaction . After all, men are more likely to regret the sex they don’t have, not the sex they have

2. Learn How To Give A Fantastic Blowjob

If you have hung around the Bad Girls Bible for a while, then you’ll have read tons of blowjob techniques and tips on giving great head to your man. When you can literally ‘blow your man’s mind’ with oral sex, then he is very likely to return the favor. But remember that giving great head to your man is about more than just reading great tips and information. Giving great head requires that you practice and use the techniques that you read here.

Obviously, your man is going to appreciate it if you practice on him. However, a great idea is to practice a new technique first on a peeled banana before trying it on your man. Then you can surprise him with it. When you read the articles on the Bad Girls Bible on how to suck cock and how to give deep throat, you will realize that giving your man a truly awesome blow job requires more than just sucking on his penis. You need to become an expert at fondling, caressing, kissing and licking his dick as well as paying attention to his ass and testicles too.

3. Don’t Forget His Balls

Testicles might not be the sexiest part of a man’s body, and they usually play second fiddle to a guy’s penis, but balls and scrotum can be quite sensitive due to the tissue and nerves contained! Some people describe them as an erogenous zone and we agree!

So don’t forget them when you’re going down on or stroking your man and have a free hand. In some penetrative positions, you may be able to reach down and fondle his balls, too.

You can try a number of techniques including

  • Cupping his balls
  • Massaging his testicles
  • Tugging gently – make sure you don’t hurt him!
  • Sucking his balls and sack – get advice here

Paying attention to his balls is a great way to satisfy a guy sexually and can set you apart from other partners.

4. Participate In Sex Actively

It’s hard to connect with your partner during sex if they’re still and silent. That’s why you should participate actively during sex. This can start even before sex if you initiate, as I mentioned in the first tip.

During sex, you can do things such as heavy breathing and moaning, switching positions, getting on top, pulling at the sheets or scratching him in pleasure, and wrapping your legs around him or pulling him closer to you in positions such as Missionary. You can even pull him into you right before penetration to show how much you want/need him.

Most of these things are signs of enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is key when it comes to being good in bed. What you lack in technique, you can almost always make up for in enthusiasm.

5. Touch His Whole Body

It’s all too easy to focus on the genitals (and breasts) when being sexual, but the body contains more than just the obvious erogenous zones. And almost any part of your body can be sensual once you’re turned on.

So run your hands over his chest, arms, and back. Use your nails if he doesn’t mind or even likes a little pain. Touch his face. Stroke or tug on his hair. Grab his ass. Caress his hips.

Imagine the sexual energy leaving your fingertips (or another body part) and surging into his. Now, this certainly can sound a little woo-woo, but if you can get out of your head and into your body you’ll both find sex a lot more satisfying.